A client of mine acquired a profitable firm four years ago. The business had been running for twenty years prior. He'd been an employee there for eighteen of them.
He did everything right. He kept the clients. He grew revenue ten to twenty percent a year. He hired well. He delegated. He started working more "on" the business.
And this year, the business plateaued.
The Advice Everyone Gives (And Why It's Incomplete)
You've heard it. Every founder has heard it at least a hundred times: "You need to stop working in your business and start working on your business."
On the surface, it's solid advice. Strategic thinking matters. Building systems matters. Getting out of the weeds matters.
But the advice skips two layers of context that determine whether it actually works.
The first layer is personal. You can't decide what to let go of and what to hold onto if you don't have clarity on who you are as a person, what your purpose is, what you intend for the business to become, and what you can realistically sustain. That's Owner's Clarity: purpose, identity, intent, and capacity. Without it, every delegation decision becomes a coin flip. You hand things off based on what feels overwhelming instead of what's strategically correct.
The second layer is operational. When you pull yourself out of the day-to-day without staying close enough to the customer, the thinking, and the key decisions that shape how clients experience your firm, something quiet and dangerous starts to happen. A gap opens between what you think your positioning is and what your market actually experiences. That's what I call the Perception Gap, in my Positioning Clarity methodology.
The founders who scale well don't choose between "on" and "in." They find a specific balance. They stay close to clients. They keep a finger on the pulse of how the team thinks and operates. They use all of that as input for their strategic work.
This Isn't a Theory
The argument here goes well beyond my client work. Some of the most consequential leaders in business history built their companies precisely because they refused to fully disconnect from frontline execution. This pattern exists across industries and across time.
In Professional Services
Marvin Bower transformed management consulting because he never stopped doing it. Bower personally led McKinsey engagements well after taking charge of the firm, working with client executives directly. That ground-level exposure to client dynamics is what drove him to invent value billing, create a unified single-partner compensation pool, and establish the professional standards that defined the entire consulting industry. As he put it: "A McKinsey consultant is supposed to put the interests of his client ahead of increasing The Firm's revenues... tell the truth and not be afraid to challenge a client's opinion." That standard came from sitting across the table from clients, doing the work, and seeing what actually mattered. And it likely wouldn't have happened, had he delegated the work.
David Ogilvy built his agency's entire operating playbook from the copy he wrote himself. He personally conducted consumer research and wrote headlines and copy for key accounts like Rolls-Royce and Dove. He was explicit about why: "I am helpless without research material — and the more 'motivational' the better... Before actually writing the copy, I write down every conceivable fact and selling idea." That hands-on client work is what allowed him to turn personal tactical insights into the firm's standardized pitch methodologies, training programs, and creative frameworks. The firm's positioning stayed sharp because the founder never lost contact with the work that clients were actually paying for.
In Product Companies
Jensen Huang made the net on AI, for NVIDIA's decades before anyone else, because he stayed close enough to the engineering to see it coming. That tactical proximity gave him the confidence to commit NVIDIA to CUDA and dedicated AI hardware years before the rest of the market understood why. Here is how he described why he operates a flat organization (roughly 40 direct reports) and drops directly into low-level engineering syncs to ask granular technical questions: "I have to create a circumstance where you understand the context, which means you have to be informed. And the best way to be informed is for there to be as little layers of information mutilation between us."
Brian Chesky rebuilt Airbnb's strategy by going back to the frontline. Chesky regularly stays in Airbnb listings, personally tests booking flows, and directly reviews user feedback on social media. In the early days, he and his co-founders lived with their hosts: "We didn't just meet our users, we lived with them. And I used to joke that when you bought an iPhone, Steve Jobs didn't come sleep on your couch. But I did." Staying that close to the actual customer experience drove Airbnb's major product overhauls around pricing transparency, identity verification, and long-term stays.
The Throughline Across All Four
Bower stayed in client engagements. Ogilvy stayed in consumer research and copy. Huang stayed in engineering syncs. Chesky stayed in the product as a user. They didn't treat "working in the business" as something to escape. For all of them, it was the raw material for every strategic decision they made.
"Information mutilation", the phrase Huang used, may be a bit rough and gory, but it describes the situation perfectly. It's exactly what happens when you pull yourself too far out. Every layer between you and the decisions that shape client experience, mutilates the information you need to lead well.
What Happens When You Disconnect
Pulling yourself too far out of the business doesn't just create an information gap. It creates a positioning gap.
Think of it like a shadow that separates, stretches and becomes so distorted that it no longer reflects the object casting it.
That's what my client was living. He has strong convictions about how his firm should operate. He refuses to chase industry trends he considers disingenuous, even when those trends are profitable. He believes in paying great salaries and building a full-time team, because the original owner gave him a chance years ago and he wants to do that for others.
Those convictions are real. But because he stepped away from the day-to-day without anchoring those convictions into a clear framework for decisions, his team started making choices that drifted from his intent. They were small drifts. The kind he didn't notice for months. But over those many small drifts over many months, the compounding effect was obvious to the market.
By the time he noticed, his Positioning Intent and his Positioning Reality were telling two different stories. Clients weren't experiencing the firm the way he believed they should. And he couldn't figure out why, because he wasn't close enough to see where the gap had opened.
That's the Perception Gap. And for founder-led firms, it's one of the most expensive problems you can have, because by the time you feel it, the drift has already been compounding for a while.
Chesky explained it most clearly when he said: "Every time I was told to delegate and do less, the company got worse."
Why He's Actually Stuck
My client is stuck, but the diagnosis is more specific than "he needs to work on the business more."
He's relitigating decisions he technically already made. Going back and forth on strategic direction, team structure, which clients to pursue. Not because the data is unclear. Because he's never gotten clear on the context those decisions need to live inside.
He hasn't defined his identity as an owner in a way he can articulate and use. He hasn't connected his purpose to the business in a way that drives daily decisions. He hasn't translated his intent for the firm into a filter that tells him what to say yes to and what to reject. And he hasn't been honest about his capacity, which means he's running at a pace that makes clear thinking nearly impossible.
Owner's Clarity is the accelerator here. Once a founder has it, the "on vs. in" question actually stops being a question. You stay close to the parts of the business that feed your strategic thinking and protect your positioning. You hand off the parts that don't require your judgment.
Where I'm Going With This
Over the next few weeks, I'm pulling apart the common advice that gets handed to founders. Advice that sounds right but lacks the context to actually work. Here are the four others I'll dive into:
- Niche down to become the only choice for a particular segment
- Take breaks to avoid burnout
- Remove yourself from sales and business development, to be able to exit the firm
- Productize to improve profitability
Here's a question I want you to sit with: What decision have you been going back and forth on for months? Not because you lack data. Not because the market is unclear. Because you haven't gotten clear on what you actually want and why you want it.
Hit reply and tell me. I read every response.
And if you know another founder stuck in that loop, forward this to them.
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